Pick by the reason you're leaving
Want to search yourself
Match
Still relationship-focused, but you can browse and filter the whole pool instead of waiting for suggestions.
Why people leave eharmony
- "Too few matches." Common in Reno, where compatibility-first sites have a small local pool. Match lets you see everyone and decide for yourself.
- "I don't want a 6 or 12-month plan." Hinge and Bumble work free, and Match offers shorter terms.
- "The matches don't feel right." Try a site where you pick, not an algorithm.
- "I'm over 55 and see too few people my age." SilverSingles is built for you.
Our advice
If eharmony's matches felt good but slow, keep it and add one free app. If they felt off, switch to a site where you can search on your own. Either way, test a new service free for a week before you pay.