Our picks
How to tell who's serious
- Their profile says so, and it's specific about the life they're building.
- They ask real questions about your life, not just your photos.
- They suggest meeting within a week or two, and follow through.
- They're consistent. Same energy after the first date as before.
How to show you're serious
- Say what you want in your profile, plainly.
- Use recent photos, including at least one where you're doing something you love.
- Move to a phone call, then a date. Long text threads rarely go anywhere.